I'll try and make this short.
My bf's bm has decided a couple weeks ago that all of a sudden their girls (3 of them) are moving with them. He hated the fact that he felt he had no rights and that his bm can just come and make changes as if he didn't have a say so.
They both filed for custody at the same time, her for sole and him for joint. He got a lawyer and so everyone is writing him letters on his behalf, including her sister and a mutual friend of theirs.
I wrote him a letter and I tried to be objective. The girls need their mom as much as they need him. I'm just so worried that in writing a letter for him, it will cause more "bad blood" between me and her. He says she doesn't like me anyway and that he has tons of letters, mine won't really make a difference. If I don't write him a letter, it's like I'm not supportive.
I won't write anything bad about her but if I was being honest, I would write how at least once a week she wouldn't see her kids for those 4 hours she was supposed to have them. I don't know if I should have him turn in my letter so that my name might be brought up in court.
What would you ladies do?
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