Do you think confidence makes you "hotter"?
Not at all being braggy but yes I am "hot" LOL .. I was blessed and I work out everyday very hard to keep my youthful appearance but let me tell you it is not an easy road with woman to look good. I have no friends because of it and I can remember back when I was like a senior in high school when I cheered all the girls were like we like u but don't like when you go out with us because you get all the attention, That is very hurtful. Sometimes being pretty is a nightmare! Its not all glorious.
I used to consider myself hot, but now that I've gained 100 lbs...not so much.
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I think I'm pretty average. All my friends are guys and really don't have a "group" that I hang out with. I've always been the self conscious one growing up, guess that never really went away. I wouldn't even know what to rate myself. I'm just me, and I guess pretty ok with that.
I'm so hot, my phone melted in my hand and I had to switch to my computer to type this response!
In all seriousness, I feel I was when it counted, but as I age, I acknowledge the physical changes. I've put on some weight, but feel I am aging gracefully. I keep a youthful mindset, take care of my skin, and color the shiz out of my hair. Moreover, I feel true beauty comes from inside, so I focus on keeping myself honest, positive and compassionate, and I love like I'm not scared of getting my heart broken. That's just who I have to be, and I am comfortable with myself.
Quoting crwspringer:
I used to be, but now that I have gained 40 lbs and always put my family before me I have fallen down to the low man in the totem pole. :-(
I'm getting "hotter" after losing 24 lbs! I still have another 35-40 I would love to lose though.
My boys are feral!
- Beautiful_Mess
on Aug. 24, 2012 at 8:54 AM