Thanksgiving...a time where everyone wants you at their house, and gets their feelings hurt if you don't. My parents are divorced. My dad lives about an hour and a half away from me. My mom wants to do lunch at her house at 11. DH's mom wants to do dinner at her house at 5. My dad's family has planned lunch at my grandfather's house at noon. What do I do? I don't want to hurt feelings, but someone's feelings will be hurt if I don't go to their house. Any suggestions?