I'm not. I do nice things, but I don't feel like a nice person. I can be pretty mean sometimes.
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I am a truthful person and people take that as being a bitch. I have this issue where I always tell the truth and if I feel someone could not handle it I just don't say anything. I have a hard time expressing myself and so I joke a lot. People think of me as fun and funny but when I get serious they go, "God, why do you have to be such a bitch? You were so fun to hang out with." I tell people if you don't want the answer to your question then don't ask!
I am nice. I am quietly nice too which makes it worse. So all these amazing things happen for people not realizing I am doing it or I give them miles and miles of leeway trying to be understanding. The only thing I get in return is being run over.
For example, a relative treats me like crap and I don't say anything. Next thing I know for some random reason that same relative is complaining to other people that I did something they didn't like so everyone now hates me. That pretty much sums up my life story.
Slowly I am getting tougher but the transition isn't fun. Now people just think I am mean because I will say no and mean it but, whatever.
I guess I am. *shrugs*
"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification" Romans 14:19
All of my mean is trapped behind my brain filter. My husband hears most of it if I need to vent about someone, but in general I'm just a 'sweet girl'.
is it ok ?
- Babujai
on Nov. 16, 2012 at 12:28 PM