I met this guy on pof (plenty of fish - online dating). He was honest and said he is looking for intimate encounter only, no picture on his profile. I was looking for the same at that time. We met and really hit it off. He really likes me and I really like him.
But... he only wants to meet in a car on my lunchbreaks. I told him I want more than sex, I want a relationship. I haven't heard from him for 10 days and then he txted me saying that he really misses me and that he would suggest normal relationship instead of intimate encounter. I agreed.
We have been txting back and forth now for a while again and he said he would take me out to lunch but it seems like whenever the exposure to public (taking me out on an actuall date) is about to happen, he backs up and says he can't etc etc.... I am tired of meeting him in a car on our lunch breaks. This has been going on for 2 months now. I told him I want him to take me on an actual date and he said he is too busy to have a normal relationship. He has two jobs.
Am I too naive to actually see through his lies, or is it possible that someone could be so busy to not have time for an actual date after two months? Your thoughts?
If you're tired of it, dump him. Find someone willing to be seen with you in public.
"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification" Romans 14:19
He said he is separated, going through divorce. But I am a smart cookie... I know the court records are available online to public and I see no record of him filing for divorce... so I am thinking he might be... but he is txting me from home quite a bit... so that's the only confusing thing... it's hard cause I really like him, ugh.
Sorry if I'm too blunt.
Quoting JasonsMom2007:
Is he married? That is my first thought.
That was mine too.
Need party help please
- kate1903
on Nov. 29, 2012 at 1:47 PM