you felt it wasnt his place to tell his friends that you are a neuortic mother who wont leave her kids with a sitter to spend time ALONE with him. sorry. but he is 100% right on this one.
until CM i have never heard of anyone NOT doing date night, or leaving their kids with a sitter.
NORMAL HEALTHY parent, go out, even if its ONCE a month WITHOUT children.
please seek medical help.
and no i am not trying to be rude... its the truth
I am the same way. So I know how you feel. So I actually used care.com. And got a wonderful babysitter. She is phenomenal. I even did an exntensive background check on her. We have since then literally made her a part of this family. She is in college working through nursing school. Even goes to our same church. So you could try that.
It is important to spend some alone time with your hubby. If you have to, do an interview, check references to find a good sitter to go out with your hubby from time to time. It's not something you have to do a lot but once in a while is good. That way your marriage stays fresh.
Mom of four
Quoting CreziaMommyTo2:you felt it wasnt his place to tell his friends that you are a neuortic mother who wont leave her kids with a sitter to spend time ALONE with him. sorry. but he is 100% right on this one.
until CM i have never heard of anyone NOT doing date night, or leaving their kids with a sitter.
NORMAL HEALTHY parent, go out, even if its ONCE a month WITHOUT children.
please seek medical help.
and no i am not trying to be rude... its the truth
Do you have a landline?
- Dekotasmama
on Jan. 1, 2013 at 2:32 PM