So here's the thing...We moved into a house on my inlaws farm in 2009 b/c we had to short sale our house and that was really the only option at the time. My husband works for his father (who doesn't do any work for the business anymore) by himself and I work full time too. I am also in school 2 nights a week and next spring will have to quit my full time job to begin the nursing program. So we got our taxes back and needed to buy a new washer/dryer b/c both went up and got a new fridge b/c the old one was too small and not working right. Not such a big deal until MIL and FIL find out we're going on a cruise for a week in the summer to celebrate our 10th Anniversary! They flipped out on DH saying we're selfish for taking a cruise and how dare we make this decision without talking to his father b/c he is DHs boss and will lose a week of work. Here's an idea...........how about for that week, YOU go out and do some work! So my MIL decides to spring this conversation on me this morning when I drop off my DD on my way to work. And goes on and on about how they sacrifice everything for the family and we don't. I'm sorry, but I don't go anywhere, don't buy anything frivilous, and if I want to take a cruise for my 10th anniversary, why in the world is it any of their business. And Selfish???? Let's talk about that for a second. The only reason we are still there is because DH is so loyal to his parents, and didn't want them to suffer from us leaving. He is a Great Son!!! Not to mention the most loyal of their 3 children. I understand that they opened their home to us and truly appreciate their help, but I don't need them telling us how terrible we are that we want to do something for ourselves for once!