which one do you agree
"it's our job to teach them, and how else can we get them to listen? It’s not like yelling hurts them; they barely listen, they roll their eyes. Of course they know we love them, even if we yell. Right?"
"Yelling scares kids. It makes them harden their hearts to us. And when we yell, kids go into fight, flight or freeze, so they stop learning whatever we're trying to teach. What's more, when we yell, it trains kids not to listen to us until we raise our voice".
reading 10 Steps to Stop Yelling by Dr. Markham (http://www.ahaparenting.com/_blog/Parenting_Blog/post/How_To__stop_yelling_at_kids/) and want to see how you practical mommies react in a difficul situation.