Do you get annoyed when invited to someone else's house and it is not clean or they made no effort to put out food, ect
I do if they make no effort to pick up. I don't mean there are toys scattered around and they didn't get the lunch dishes done..... I mean mounts of smelly dishes, dirty diapers around, no surface without junk on it. There are some friends I do not take home invites from. I love them but their house keeping skills are scary.
I am ok with any food they serve as long as it was prepared in a clean environment.