See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Ok My best friend of 10 years haven't talked in months with her other then last week which wasn't great... Things haven't been good with us in years, she can be quite rude and will never say sorry for it. Even when she is and I'm upset its me texting her again (with no word of a sorry from her) and I just brush it under the rug. well back in Nov. I really needed her with my mom going threw surgery and she didn't even ask how my mom was or contact me at all. I try to not text her, but I get so used to telling her everything. So I was really upset that night and deleted her from Facebook, A childish thing I know and not at all the person I am but I just was fed up with her, I'm always there for her and she is never there for me. well no contact from her till last week when she decided to only invite one of my daughters to her son's birthday and my other daughter was crushed. I text her to say hannah was very hurt and her only response was "well its just a party for 10 of his friends!! i went on to text her back and say, I know but we have never done it that way, were close to eachothers kids and I would never exclude yours and no response at all to any of my messages. Question? Should I drop the friendship? Let it go? It breaks my heart, I miss her so much, but how can I keep trying threw the years, always contacting her and asking how she is doing with nothing in return?! Sorry this is long.. but hubby wants me to let the friendship go, has for years and I'm just having a hard time :(