We all live in Ohio. I was diagnosed with Lupus in 2003 and the weather is KILLING ME!! More than anything I want to move far far far away where it's warm and sunny year round. My problem is I am very close to my parents and my son is the only grandchild. Whenever I even suggest moving away my mom starts to fall apart. They are retired and could travel or move anywehere. I hate to sit around and suffer until they're gone. But I also hate to move out of state and break their hearts. I'm really torn and wondering if anyone else has been in this situation and how you dealt/deal with it. How did it work out?