I consider myself a friendly, easy-going, and caring person who enjoy meeting new people. Whenever I try to interact with women my age, I feel out of place. I feel they would rather be around somebody that has it all together, but in reality nobody has it together. I'm a very soft spoken person and a little corky, and sometimes I have to speak up when others are taking advantage of me. I try to spark up a conversation with some of the women in church or my neighborhood , it doesn't seem to work. They would rather be around somebody that is consider important or have fancy clothes. I can't judge them , but I have to admit we are living in a cruel and shallow world. I can't change the world. I have to change and I have to accept my weakness. I am a wife and mother of three wonderful children. It's not easy raising a child with severe autism and another with mild autism. They are truly a blessing to me, but most people see it as a curse and don't want any part of it. I need some advice. Can somebody help me?