My boyfriend has 2 kids (6 and 8) 100% of the time. I have 2 kids (3 and 6) and their dad has them everyother weekend and wed evenings. The relationship of one year is straining because I am feeling like it is slipping. He thinks having date night once every other month is enough. We live a few blocks from each other. His mother is very willing to help. Am I being greedy? Once a month would be nice!