Ok I am going to first start with, my husband is a GREAT dad, he loves our girls and I know that. BUT the problem is that they are 5 years apart (10 and 5) My oldest plays softball and is great at it. She is on a competitive travel team and its just amazing to watch her play. Well my 5 year old is playing coaches pitch rec ball. She is actually 4 but will be 5 in a couple of weeks. If any of you have has experience with tee ball, you know what I mean when I say practice and games are, well chaotic. Half the time she is kicking the dirt or looking around, but she tries. Anyways, I am frustrated because I feel like my husband doesn't give my youngest as much attentiion when it comes to ball. Last night they both had practice at the same park, their practices we right next to each other. I watched my oldest for 3 minutes until the other practice started, then I watched the youngest, then I stood in the middle so I could see both. My DH only sat at my oldest and watched her. He always talks about her, at my DD5's first scrimmage, my DD10 had practice and I literally had to go get him and tell him to come watch. He says that DD5 is just in the outfield, but it doesn't matter in my opinion. We should be just as interested in DD5. Right??