I am 32 and my husband is 34. We have been together for 5 ½ years and married for 2 years. My husband has 2 daughters, ages 9 and 12 and we share time 50/50 with their mother. The girls are great and I love them dearly!! Wouldn't change a thing!!! I am more of a mother to them then their own - and that is not at all being sarcastic!! I do EVERYTHING for the children (make calendars, all doctors and dentist appointments, school projects, field trips, you name it, etc....).
Here's my dilemma.............. I have known since meeting my husband that he DID NOT want any more children!! This is a sacrifice that I made and I am OK with it. BUT, I am now 4 days late on my period and something is telling me that I might be pregnant! I have never ever been late!!! I am on the pill and have never missed a day of the pill (have been on it for 10+ years).
I am scared to death to find out and I am scared to death to tell my husband, if in fact I am pregnant! I am just so very scared of how he will react (if I am) and I don't know what to do........... Will he be mad? Will he leave me? Will this put a damper in our marriage? Will he blame me?
Keep in mind, we are a very happy, fun loving couple. No problems. We love our free time every other weekend and enjoy traveling visiting new places. He has just made it clear from day 1, that having more children is something he had absolutely no interest in and didn't want it. HELP!!!!!!!! I am so afraid to tell anyone, so I am hoping for some advice here!!!
Feeling very lonely and scared!!!!