My husband and I have been married for 9 years. This past March, I found out he was having an emotion/sexual affair online through texts and email. This is a women he met in person in our town through a work thing. That is how they started contacting each other, but it turned into much more. I found out cause I saw a mesage she sent him. This had been going on 1 year! She sent him naked pictures and the text I saw was very sexually explicit. I confronted him, he came clean and stopped contact with her. He says he has never done anything like this before. We have talked about this only 2 times! Since the whole thing was exsposed, we- mainly I have been very unhappy. He acts like nothing happend. I have brought up seeing a marriage counselor several times, but he just blows it off. I know it's something I just need to set up myself. My question to all you is... has anyone else gone through something like this? I still find suspicous emails, texts, FB messages from women. I confront him and he is defensive and quick to blow it off and change the topic. I don't even know how much a counselor would help.. we have 3 kids and it's hard to get time away. I honelsly don't trust him. I don't think he would have an actual affair, but then again I don't know.