DH is upset. He just found out from his step grandfather that he has another sibling from his dad. He was talking about it and he didn't know my dh didn't know.
Back story: He's the oldest. (well, that we know of) His dad was a holiday dad. As in really only saw him on holidays. Come in with a bunch of stuff on Christmas and call it good. He paid his child support but that was about it. His grandparents on his dad's side were great though.
He has a brother who was put up for adoption from is dad's second wife that's IDK maybe around 33ish because his dad never wanted boys.
He has 3 sisters from his dad's second wife who he kinda grew up with. 2 are kinda shady so we keep minimal contact and the other lives 4 hours away.
Then he has like a 16 year old sister that his dad doesn't see (never has)He just sends a check every month. The uncle who I went to school with will not allow a relationship because he blames my dh for his sister getting pregnant. I have no clue how that works out because dh doesn't even talk to his dad and has never meet the mother. The way the guy talk you would think my dh was the one who was the dad.
Now he just found out he has a sister whom is in her 30's. IDK who the mom is. Plus who knows if there's others out there.
He's just for a loss for words. Are these people going to show up one day and ask if he's their brother. I wonder if theirs anyway for dh to find them. It really hurts dh to have brothers and sisters whom he's never meet. What kinda man just leaves babies everywhere. ( nevermind, I know)