Fairly normal as far as I know. When you have several kids there's just a lack of time.
Quoting alaskadreams:i haven't been married a year and a half and i am lucky if we get busy once a month. I hate it. he works night though and says he's tired. He has been trying more lately though. are you just in a rut?
Three kids, been married nearly 11 years and we have relations about once a month lately. It ebbs and flows. We are on kind of a dry spell lately, but we were very amorous for awhile. Eh, I'm not concerned.
Normal is relative, if you are happy with the frequency then it's all good! It's not the number of times that matters, it's the quality.
Do you mean SEX? We have sex once a week if we are lucky. We have one child, but 2 busy jobs. We usually have it when we feel like we haven't had it in awhile and need to re-connect. Sex for me has lost its spark so I can go without it for a whole month and not be bothered by it.
Well, I know that DH and I are -not- 'normal' with this one. We have sex almost daily - sometimes more, sometimes less. We have 5 kids but have always made our relationship a priority and sex is one of the many ways we stay connected.
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