which one do you prefer and why?
I'm 30 and I've always wanted to find someone to marry, and now that I actually can, I'm like, we have a baby on the way I want to save money for the baby instead. His dad is a pastor and said he's got the church, but pregnant at a wedding is not how's pictured my life lol well get married after the baby is born!!!
Never. I think marraige is a religious ceremony which is fine. I dont see the need to make it legal with a piece of paper no one will ever see. I can and do still love my bf without the papers. We've been together for 15 years and I dont see that chaning any time soon. Its too easy for people to get divorced, I think having a baby is a way bigger comitment!
I don't think either is better or worse. No one should marry, before they are ready.
I was like you but I think for the kids sake mommy and daddy must share a name
Quoting Mommy980106:I married at 16 and we will celebrate our 16th anniversary on December. This is not something that I would want any of my children to do though. It was a very hard road to get to where we are, and we both matured a lot during our marriage. Thankfully, we are still together & very much in love - even if I want to pull my hair out sometimes.
Iuse to think that I married early but you win.
I really can't compare. I married early~ I was almost 22. My husband and I just celebrated our 19th anniversary on Monday.
Quoting conniejo75:I married at 20 & divorced at 22. I am now 38 and have no plans to ever re marry
look at it this way it was a try on at 20 and was the right size but did not compliment the figure so u must try on another garmet and maybe just maybe the dress will fit like it was sewed on you
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