My toddler just moved into her big-sis's bedroom and its been a bumpy ride. We are book reading, special blankets/animal, back rubbing 'bedtime' parents, and do a lot of bed-sharing too.
But when they moved into together it just didn't work to stay in the room with them for very long. So we have become the type of read, tuck in, and GO. We check in when it gets loud* and re-tuck, but then leave. No major back rubbing/cuddling- unless someones sick. It just not what works for them, right now. And I have learned you have to parent to the child, not parent for yourself. (this took three kids for me to learn)
What parenting styles have you had to change for your kids?