I'm not a fancy purse or bag girl. I'm a carry my crap in my pockets kind of girl. I do love cross over bags and I actually have a very nice leather one that I use on occasion, but for the summer I am thinking of getting a backpack to carry my stuff around in ( mostly just my waller, phone and camera and a few snacks) for when I am out and about with the kids so my hands are free. What sort of bags do you 30 something moms use ( if any). I would love to see some photos.