I had a friend that I known since I was 11 years old. Our DD are only 5 weeks apart. Even though we live in different states we still manage to keep in touch and even take a few trips together a few years ago.
So early last year she was being evicted from her home. She knew that my house was deployed, finished nursing school new job and I had extra money. She asked me to help her since I consider her to be my best friend I agreed to loan her the money but she would have to pay me back with in six months. I gave her an date of payment. Once that date came and gone I offer to put her on a payment plan of 50 every two weeks. only got three payments. So I called her and ask her for the money she got mad at me. She told me that "I really didn't need it , so why am I calling about it?". I was able to help her stay in her home and this is how I am treated. Really two can play this game.
I knew that she was trying to by a new car and was going to trade in her current car. I places a lean on the car. She called my yelling telling me that she really to get a new car, She even had her mother call me to tell me I was the worse person in the world and what kind of friend.
Do you think I was wrong for putting the lean on her car?
She called me trying to set up a payment arrangement again if I removed the lean. I told her once she paid the loan then I would remove the lean. The conversation didn't go will. She asked me "Why kind of friend am I that I would do that to her?" I told her "The kind of friend that gave you 1800 to say in your house when no one else would or could." I asked her "What kind of friend would go on a $5000 vacation instead of paying a friend back?" she told me " What she does with her money is her business. If she wanted to go to the moon for a million dollars then she can do that." oh I was so mad I just hung up on her. What do you say to someone like that