Do you ever vacation without your kids?
We used to go every weekend for Memorial Day weekend to MIL's cousin's house just DH, MIL and myself. It's about 2 hours away. He had a pool, pool house with a pool table and a fully stocked bar. Plus he would cook the most awesome food for us. We didn't go this year and we probably won't go back. He got a girlfriend and her and MIL don't get along:(
I don't have a problem going on vacation without my kids as long as I'm only about 4 hours away. That's just a personal safety thing for me. And we only went on our first family vacation last year...we'd never taken one before so it's not like we've had so many opportunities to go without them. And the vacations DH and I want to go on are usually fun so we feel guilty doing fun things without the kids..lol.
we went to Vegas for a long weekend w/o them and that is something we plan on doing once a year or so..
My DH and I have taken a couple of weekends....
We'll be going on a weekend getaway next month and vacation at the end of October. My parents will be watching her.