Our next-door-neighbor's dd (6)came over w/ something to give to our dd (8). I have heard the kids say they are allowed to play in our yard, but not come in the house. We respect Mom & Dad's wishes on this. Anyway, I stood in the open door while calling our dd over. Didn't feel polite to close it on the kid. Kid walks in, starts looking @ our turtle & rabbits that we have in the living room. I asked her if she was allowed in the house, & told her I didn't want her in trouble w/ Mom & Dad. "No, I'll just stay a min or two." Don't wanna make her feel unwelcome, but also don't wanna get in trouble w/ her parents for doing something she's not s'posed to do.