does anyone have advice on how to deal with the loss of their mother? i lost my mom aug 13. my birthday. i cry all the time. i dont want my kids to see so i hide in my room most of the day. i dont care to clean or cook. i feel like im falling into a deep depression and cnt stop it. i ate a cookie the other day and cried because ill never get to eat hers again. ive never had anyone close to me pass before and this is just way to hard to deal with. they say u learn how to live with grief but i cnt. if i do smile or laugh, i feel guilty. i feel like the world is going on and im stuck in one place. i cnt eat, i take sleeping pills to sleep. thank god for my dh for keeping the house and kids togrther. i dnt no what to do or how to deal with this. HELP PLEASE!