Sorry I having been around, but we lost my dad the end of July and things have been rough since then. I'm now help my mom get her house in order and keep my house hold running smooth. My kids are all dealing in different ways, which is to be expected. My older kids are back in school now and all their teachers know about their papa passing away and what to watch for. I'm still holding strong, sometimes tears come out, but mostly I'm just busy with two house and and raising 8 kids. We are all trying to get in to the new routine.