I'm annoyed. My husband comes home from work and tells me his friend (who is going through a divorce) needs help moving from his parents house to a friends house. Well, this "friend" happens to be my husbands ex gf. The whole situation is messed up. BUT, even more than that, my husband just had triple hernia repair surgery 5 months ago and went to see the surgeon last week because he was still in a decent amount of pain. I really don't want to argue with my husband about it, I didn't say anything when he told me, but sometimes I wish he wasn't so nice. In addition, even though the dr. said he has no restrictions, I really am not thrilled over the idea of him doing that much lifting. He's in pain after just being on his feet all day. GRRRR!