Hi. I'm new here. I have four kids, 2, 4, 11, and 12.
My husband works full time, and I stay home. All four kids are in school, at least until 2:30. To complicate things, I have some chronic conditions that I try my best not to let get in the way of daily life (but they do).
Anyhow, I am wondering what do you think is reasonable to ask for help with, particularly with the kids?
How much help do you get? With what things is particular?
It's not so much that he's not willing, but I have an internal struggle asking him for help and often feel guilty, like I should be able to handle it all.
Come to think of it, when I've taken the kids on a trip without him, it was a lot of work, but is was actually freeing because of the lack of emotional turmoil.