So here is a little bit of background on my situation. This girl I know we will call her Sue well her and I were friends for sometime and she was my one and only true girl best friend. I mean she was like a sister to me. But she was not on the same level maturity wise and even though she had two kids and another on the way she just kept making these stupid choices and then blamming others for them. It got to the point after having her third kid that she would get upset at her mom when her mom would get upset at her for hanging out with her boyfriend instead of being home with her three kids. Like it's not your moms fault you have three kids that's on you and your mom shouldn't even have to watch your kids..... I just couldn't put up with it anymore and I stopped talking to her. She was a big drinker at this time too which I couldn't stand either.... Well she has written me a few times over the past years that we haven't spoken and she has even written my hubs. She says she's a year sober now, moved to a different state, is with a really great guy, and that she really wants to talk to me again. I don't know what I should do I mean I loved this girl like a sister.... but I am unsure if I want to reopen that door. What if she thinks she has her life together but really it's just the same as before..... Ugh and she sent my hubs a message today which is why I'm thinking about this so hard today... I just really don't know what to do.