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not sure how to feel?

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2014 at 5:03 PM
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About a week and a half ago I had two positive pregnancy test a few days before my period was late. I'm usually 28-32 days so it was late for the 28- 30 days but not late late, if that makes sense. I was still having cramps like crazy and felt like I was going to start but nothing. Then Thursday night a week after the test I started bleeding with insane cramps. My doctor confirmed it was a miscarriage. I was still reeling from the positive test and don't know what to feel about this loss. Guess I'm in shock about it all.
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lalasmama2007
by Ticia on Feb. 17, 2014 at 5:07 PM
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I'm sorry =(

hugs

stephyk
by Member on Feb. 17, 2014 at 5:07 PM
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Quoting lalasmama2007:

I'm sorry =(

hugs

12yrmama
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2014 at 5:09 PM
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Sorry. Its happened to me too.

JennasMom2
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2014 at 5:18 PM

If it was me, I would just try to tell myself there was a reason it happened. Maybe the there would have been a development issue or maybe my body wasn't able to handle it for some reason. I'm sorry this happened to you, that's got to be difficult. I would wait a month or 2 and try again :) 

MaineMammax2
by Bronze Member on Feb. 17, 2014 at 5:34 PM
My doctor estimated about 6 weeks and at that time you have to assume something somewhere wasn't right. The thing is we were definitely not trying. We have two little girls and are done having more or so we thought. It was such a shock because we used protection so we can devote our lives to growing a strong family with our daughters and not over stretching ourselves by adding more than we can handle. I am not sure how to feel because we thought it was awful to find out the protection failed and now poof it's gone. I feel guilty and relieved and then more guilty for being relieved. So many people want to have a baby and can't.

Quoting JennasMom2:

If it was me, I would just try to tell myself there was a reason it happened. Maybe the there would have been a development issue or maybe my body wasn't able to handle it for some reason. I'm sorry this happened to you, that's got to be difficult. I would wait a month or 2 and try again :) 

Mishy2
by Michelle on Feb. 17, 2014 at 7:58 PM
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 so sorry (hugs)

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KylesMom409
by Linnette on Feb. 17, 2014 at 8:09 PM
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I'm so sorry, hun. Hugs and you're in my thoughts.
e-doolittle
by Kelly on Feb. 17, 2014 at 11:33 PM
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So sorry........ Hugs!
anotherandree
by Inga on Feb. 17, 2014 at 11:34 PM
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Sorry. It's a loss and they are always hard.
oliveoyl214
by Member on Feb. 18, 2014 at 6:17 AM
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hugsI'm sorry momma

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