I am having a hard time deciding about staying with my husband. I just got out of a week and a half in the psych unit at the hospital because of stress mainly because of him but other reasons as well because I cut myself. I love him to death but I can only handle so much with my major depression disorder. He constantly says I'm sorry for the exact same thing over and over, yet he say it won't happen again. I ask him how many times do I have to accept the answer I'm sorry from him before I finally say I'm done with him. He doesn't help me out around the house. He doesn't want to try to help himself by eating healthier to take care of himself and lose weight. He gets mad at me when I don't talk to him about my emotions but when I try to talk to him about my emotions he gets mad. He gets mad at me no matter what I try to say to him in a calm voice. We are constantly arguing no matter what it's about. I've wanted to move to Missouri because I don't have any family here in Iowa. All my family lives in Missouri. All his family lives in Iowa so he won't leave Iowa no matter what, even if I did want to be closer to my family. I need suggestions on what to do.
on Jun. 4, 2014 at 10:22 PM