ok so im 20 years old. and i am a bisexual. my family is not for it. some members of my family say that it's not right for two women to raise a child together if they are a couple. and i always hear remarks here and there about my lifestyle. and it's tough. im not ashamed of my lifestyle. but it's hard to talk to someone who doesnt understand or respect you. it's my life and the way i want to live. and i hate that they try saying who i can and cannot be with. i always hear them say " we just want what is best for you" but when they say that i know they are refering to what doesnt embarrass them but also makes me happy. how do i tell them that this is who i am and that it hurts that they act dissapointed in me without causing a big issue in the family?