Although I am married to a man I identify as bi-sexual. I dont belive this is a preferance or a choice. You are who God created you to be and I teach this to my children I want them to appreciate people not for who they are sexualy or what color their skin but by who that person is inside. And although I am proud of who I am, I dont know what to do. I recently moved to Missouri from Buffalo, NY. All of my family and friends there know and are completely supportive but no one here knows. Because I am married people automaticly assume I am straight and will laugh and make gay jokes in front of me. Although I always defend homosexuality and tell them that their jokes are unwanted I never jump out and say "I am bi-sexual!" I am afraid of their reactions and what my husband would think of me just coming right out and saying it in front of his friends. I have no close friends here yet and Im afraid if I did I wouldnt know how to tell them for fear of how they too would react. I need all the advice I can get. Thank you all for listening and for any help you can give.
on Sep. 4, 2007 at 10:31 PM