woundering what i should do

i'm almost 20 and i dont know if i should work or stay at home.   my husband dosnt know how hard it is to do everything around the house and take care of our son and go to school.   he works all day, and come home and makes the house a complete mess.  and dosnt respect things that i do.  we are going to marrage counceling for that but i still dont know about going to work. the only thing i can think of doing and still staying home with my son is to do daycare.  what do you think?