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A Boost To All Mommies That Are Feeling Sad......

Posted by on Jul. 19, 2012 at 10:06 PM
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Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. Did you ever wonder how mothers of children with autism are chosen? Somehow I visualize God hovering over earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.

"Armstrong, Beth, son. Patron Saint Matthew."

"Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, Patron Saint Cecilia."

"Rutledge, Carrie, twins. Patron Saint Gerard. He's used to profanity."

Finally, He passes a name to an angel, Taylor, Julie, son. God smiles, "Give her a child with autism." The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly", smiles God. "Could I give a child with autism to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel".

"But has she the patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience, or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it. I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I am going to give her has his own world. She has to make him live in her world and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't know if she even believes in you."

God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps. "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she cannot separate herself from the child occasionally, she will never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with less than perfect."

"She does not realize it yet, but she is to be envied. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see .... ignorance, cruelty, prejudice ... and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as if she is here by my side."

"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in mid air. God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."

Now, just because I am a Witch, doesn't mean I can't see the message clearly in this. I love my boys and I would not trade them for anything. I think this pretty much says it all about having a special child.

by on Jul. 19, 2012 at 10:06 PM
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by Head Admin on Jul. 20, 2012 at 1:05 AM


Love this!  It's so true, it is God's work day in and day out that we mom's do for our children...and he is always with us.  Thanks for sharing!!

by Member on Jul. 20, 2012 at 6:58 AM

 I love this.  It really got me thinking.  Thanks for sharing.

by on Jul. 20, 2012 at 10:27 AM

Sometimes we get so caught up in the might have been, that a gentle prod or a big huge pillow to the face for wake up call is needed. But then, I love pillow fights, LoL.

I would have figured we could have Saint Gerard ;)

by Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 8:53 AM

I am not a person who truely believes in god as its worded here as well. But its beautiful and brought tears to my eyes and I understand the message as well. Thank you

by Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 1:12 PM
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But I don't wanna be a Saint.
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by on Jul. 22, 2012 at 9:00 PM

LoL, the saints weren't perfect. I have read up on some of them and wow, some were really out there. LoL

by Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 10:24 PM
Wow. I always wondered if it worked that way lol! Thank you for sharing. :)
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by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 1:34 AM

 yes , well said

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