Iam ready to throw in the towl and give up.

[Jhoanna86]

Hi my 8 year old son has ADHD,pre deiabetic, speech and understandment delay, dislexia and extra Y chromosome. It is impossible for me to get him to clean his room or anything that has to do with helping i don't now how much longer I can keep up I have no family here and there father don't even send an email or anything my daughter has epilepsy and dislexia and I was just diagnosed with Sjogrens syndrom. I need some advise as to how to work with my son specialy with the impulsive behavior and aggression.

[whatmynameagain]

Mysonhazadhdand od d speech delay this cause a lot of issues with listening/ following directions and behavior: sleeping too...our neurologist and pediyritiin suggested a child psychologist/ behaviorist to help both him and us work with him. Sounds lie you have a lot on your plate maybe try a therapist/ behaviorist to help work on some issues and ease some of thecstress on yourvshoulders.:)

[tam626]

I have no advice, just wanted to say hang in there, sounds like you're dealing with alot.

[Jhoanna86]

Thanks, I will do my searches but its hard to find one close to here that takes star plus insurance and Iam not working much so i can't change insurance. I just hope I can get this under control.

[krysy_8]

 i would try applying for disablility for your kiddo, if approved you could have extra in home help and respite care for you to have a break.

[Jhoanna86]

Will do. Do you happen to have advise on a child that has perfect speech but don't comprehensive or remember what was said or following direccions given? I was just told this about my daughter at her evaluation for speech, I'd never heard such thing. I'm guessing really bad family blood family history :(:(:(:(. And once again I start over with a new condition.

[ladynell4god]

i am standing in prayer with you. i pray god will rescue you and your children from all your cry-outs very very soon. may he see you all the way through. Keep holding on: i can only imagine what you are going through. may your days and nights be blessed, peaceful, and restful as well as surrounded by god's great love. be blessed.

[normajimerson]

Hang in there, don't give up.  You are your son's greatest advocate.