From the CafeMom Terms of Service: 

The following Community Guidelines apply to and govern your use of the Site and the Services.

• Treat other Members in the community with respect. Even if their views differ from yours, they have the right to be heard.
• Do not post email addresses, telephone numbers, street addresses, last names, or any other content or information that identifies a user.
• Do not engage in conduct that is offensive, harassing, mean spirited, unlawful or which otherwise violates the spirit or the letter of these Guidelines or these TOS, and let us know if you learn of any other Member who does so.
• Do not upload, post, email or otherwise make available any content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable.
• Do not use the Site or Services for advertising. Do not upload, post, transmit, share or otherwise make available any unsolicited or unauthorized advertisements, solicitations, promotional materials, "junk mail," "spam," "chain letters," "pyramid schemes," or any other kind of solicitation. Repeated unsolicited email with the same or similar content will be treated as spam.
• Do not impersonate any person or entity or misrepresent your identity or affiliation with any person or entity.
• Do not share content or information given to you by another Member unless expressly authorized to do so by that Member.
• Do not use other Member's personal data for purposes other than establishing contact that is reasonably expected to be welcomed by that person. If a Member requests that you no longer communicate with her, please honor that request.
• Antisocial, disruptive, or destructive acts, including "flaming," "spamming," "flooding," "trolling," "griefing" and "phishing," (as those terms are commonly understood and used in the Internet) is prohibited and users who violate this rule will have their membership revoked.

Please refrain from posting about personal businesses, at home 'opportunities', or otherwise posting about 'beneficial' treatments, cleansers, etc. from which you would benefit, i.e. touting 'rid your home of toxins' posts. Those posts which benefit the poster will be removed.  NO spam is allowed on this board.

Anyone who 'trolls' for members for their own board will be blocked and banned from the site.  You are welcome to post a reply inviting someone to contact you privately; you are not welcome to pad your membership from this board.

Thank your for your understanding and adherence to these guidelines.