Help.......idk what my reaction should be

[Obysmommy_2011]

Ok so last night my hubby went out to watch a soccer and he came home at 2:40 a.m. but this isn't his first time coming home late. Just a few weeks back he came home at 5:30 a.m. Both times he has gone out with my older brother who at times can be flirty (even though he is married)now I know that my husband is a bit shy but he sure loves to look around. Both times I've stayed home alone with just my 11month old bby boy without locking the top of the door. I was mad the dirst time that happened but now i just dont know.



Oh and p.s. I have never ever gone out with,friends like he has!!! Please help idk if to b mad or just let it go?!?!

[emilee2012]

He might just be having a good time. If you dont trust your brother to tell you if things get crazy then dont let your husband hang out with him.

[joleenb127]

Sometimes men just need their "men bonding time" you should be able to talk to him about your concerns though. and he should respect your feelings. my husband has never stayed out that late. he does sometimes go out with him friends without letting me know how long he is goig to be gone. but hes always home in bed with me at night. I would have a serious talk with him if he ever did that to me. In my opinion, im sure hes not cheating on you or anything though.

[lovelylambert]

In my opinion it sounds like he's gonna make a habit of it.I wouldn't like it either it would piss me off if my hubby did that.I would talk to him about it and he should respect that you don't like it,and if he don't I would do the same thing to him.

[Tsawyer1290]

I would let him know how you feel about the situation, and make sure that he doesn't make too much of a habit of coming home really late.

[erika.lorraine]

I don't think your hubby is doing anything wrong, but...if you dont like what he's doing & your not able to bring it up without causing an argument or raised suspicion,, then what does it hurt to do it back. Go out with a girlfriend or sister and stay out late...i mean ever relationship should be equal.

[kbell1015]

You should really let him know that it bothers you for him to just come and go as he pleases.....my husband did the same thing and i hated it but once we talked about it he let me know that he didnt think that it would be a problem and then he made sure to b home b4 12 at the latest 

[2andhappy]

Just ask him and see what he comes up with.  Not saying that he will lie, ut pay clos attention to details and as him what he did again maybe a week later. If he comes up with the same thing it is the truth and I wouldn't really worry about it. My husband does the samething and i don't even worry about him. I just let him do him.

[zelda0110]

let him go out tell him he has to be home at a more reasonable time and tell him if he is going to keep going out that you need to be able to go out as well