hi i just recently became a mom. i started dating my boyfriend and he has three kids. two girls one thats two and ones six and a son thats eight. i love the kids and im ready to be a mom to them. im having trouble adjusting to being a mom some things come easier then others. the girls are easier to deal with then the boy. he fights me on everything and wont listen when i tell him to do something. i know hes just trying to get my attention but i dont know how to react without being mean. the six year old also has autism and its harder to disipline her and understand some of her needs. im used to sleeping all day and partying with friends. if anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated.