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i dont even know where to begin.........

Posted by on Jun. 20, 2007 at 1:26 AM
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i am 20 yrs old and ive been tring to look for my birth mom since i was 18!! ive has absolutly NO success with it!! i dont know if anybody can help me....i live in Cleveland, OH!!
by on Jun. 20, 2007 at 1:26 AM
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adopteeme
by on Jun. 20, 2007 at 3:57 AM
Shea's Search Series
The Definitive Guide to Self-Empowered Adoptee Search
http://www.bastards.org/search/series.html

This large article has 6 sections in it- on "how" to search.  It  really is a *must* read!

Ohio has:
no provisions for obtaining non-id. 
Search Mechanisms- passive registry for parents, adoptee, and sibs
records access- by court order only

**Ohio:Individuals adopted prior to 1964 may obtain their original birth certificates upon request, UNLESS sometime after 1964, someone requested the "reissuance" of a birth certificate in the adopted name, in which case, the original birth certificate was sealed. For adoptions occurring after 1964, access to the original birth certificate is available by court order only.

http://www.bastards.org/activism/access.htm

* info on State Adoption Disclosure Laws from Bastard Nation 

Ohio adoption search and support groups:

Mt. Gilead, Reunite Inc   419-946-9443


Concerned United Birthparents, 419-874-4471

13 Meadowbrook Dr, Perrysburg 43551


Adoption Network, 440-244-1060, Email:  Deb@adoptionnetwork.org

205 W 30th St, Room 14, Lorain  44055

 

Adoption Triad Support Center,  216-943-2118,
5900 S.O.M. Center Rd, #273, Cleveland   44094


Adoption Network,  216-261-1511,Email:  Betsie@adoptionnetwork.org

291 East 222nd St, Rm 229, Cleveland    44123


Concerned United Birthparents,   Holland  419/865-9604

Birthparents Support, 513-741-0929
3423 Bluerock Rd, Cincinatti   45239


Sunshine Reunions,  216-773-4691

1175 Virginia Avenue, Akron    44306


Birthmother's Support Group 937-277-4881   Email - elowrey@erinet.com

324 E. Siebenthaler Ave. Dayton, OH 45405

 

Chosen Children,  937-274-8017, Email:  Ag802@MvcnDayton.oh.us
311 Springbrook, Dayton    45405


Pieces of Yesterday, 937-436-0593

856 Pine Needles Dr, Dayton  45458-3329

**Network!!!! Contact S&S groups- they know 'how' to search Ohio! Seems there is a birthindex in Ohio that can be helpful in search.  S&S groups are invaluable resource for emotional support as well. 

mattandme
by Group Owner on Jun. 20, 2007 at 1:34 PM
Hi, I know searching is very frustrating.  I also started searching when I was 18 and I finally found my birth families when I was about 34 years old.  The big thing is I never gave up.  I did take breaks every now and then when things got to overwhelming. 

What information is any do you have? 

Hospital:

Adoption Agency:

Any info on birth parents such as ages and where they were from:

If you can any of these questions at least you have a place to start.  I live in New York State and I sent away for my non identiying information.  Check for Ohio if that is the state you were adopted in and see if you can request yours.

Also, have you posted your information on any of the search websites?  There are tons of them.  You never know, maybe your birth family is looking for you.

Talk to ya soon!!  You are not alone!!
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