ok so here is the rundown. my husband and i are separated, because he wants a divorce. i have said i am not going back to him, because i dont want to be here in our situation again. he distanced himself before his first deployment, and just never came back. sue he was back physically, but mentally and emotionally he was still gone. now he is about to deploy again, and i think he might want to get back together. i tried telling him that i don't want to have to go through this again, and he told me who know we might be able to work out our problems, and be happy. well i don't think so, because i did everything to try to save it the first two times, the seconf i even suggested marriage counsling, and he refused to go. i am just at a loss. i am torn between wanting to go back, and be together, or just go ahead with the divorce. i love him so much, and do want to be with him, but i know i won't be able to make it through it if he says he wants a divorce again.
I am a single mother to a beautiful little girl. I will tare you apart if you harm her.