Anonymous Feature, Anonymous Questions. Please read.

[proud2bmom3]

Assalamu alaikum dear sisters.

we have started this anonymous feature a while back. but not many of our new members know about it. and so I decided to make this a sticky post, so that you can always find it. I will also provide a link to the different anonymous posts we have had in the past. ( before and after setting up the anonymous profile)

so , if you would like to post a question anonymously, please send your message either to my account ( proud2bmom3) or to this account  anonymous4mm .

Please rest assured that your privacy will be respected and that your message will be deleted from the in-boxes immediately . you can still reply to the post by sending your replies to me, and I can post it for you under anonymous.

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why would I consider the anonymous option?

~ if I want to ask a personal question. and don't want people to know it's me

~if I want to ask a sensitive question, and am shy.. dont' want people to know I am asking about this..

~if I want to ask about someone in particular in my life. and so this way. it is NOT a magheebah ( backbiting) because no one knows who I am , or who I am asking about

~ if I am asking about a sin, a struggle, or a challenge that I am trying to overcome. and so I am not revealing a sin .. ( following in the commands of Islam , to conceal our sins) but still get to learn, get support, and help from my sisters.

~ or, I just feel like it..

Whatever your reason might be..  I want to remind you all that we have this account created for YOU... Please take advantage of it

 

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Here is a list of some of the posts, please feel free to read, respond, or just offer dua.. and pleas please , if you feel like you want to ask about something without the extra bagage, just throw me a line. insha' Allah. and it is in front of Allah subhanahu wa talaa that I promise to protect your privacy. may He forgive us and guide us all. Ameen.

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( I will post the links a little at a time, insha' Allah I will get to post all of them before too long. please forgive me and bear with me.. )

 ~ a woman so bodly communicating with my husband, am I overreacting?

 

~ Problems in marital life, need support and dua.

 

- Am I still Muslim? do I need to do shahaada Again?

 

- Is it shirk to ask someone to make Dua' on your behalf?

 

- Can I have my tubes tied?

 

~invetro during Ramadan

- Stuck in Saudi Arabia, Please Dua and advice

 

-Pressures from my Christian family about daughter's first birthday

 

- Loving for the sake of Allah: please explain

If a woman does not make up the days she didnt' fast in Ramadan before the next Ramadan( due to menses, or bleeding) does she have to pay fidya?

 

My husband or my children? please help

 

(...... more to come ..........)

[muhajjirah]

Asalaamalaikum Sisters,

Just a reminder Ill stick here about the General Discussions VS Private Forums ..

Often times sisters of the group want to post private things without being anonymous so they go to the Private Forum to do that, and sometimes they ask for their posts to be moved too. Other times those who are commenting prefer it to be in the Private Forum too as has been asked of me. So if you have posted in General Discussions but dont see the thread there..then please go see if its in the Private Forum..thats the only other place it would be unless you deleted it :) 

JazakAllah kheir.