My b-day is mother's day. I really don't want a big deal made. I want DH to grill out and I want a cake. I couldn't come up with any gift ideas. So yesterday I got online and ordered 4 nursing shirts and a waffle maker. I told him I ordered my gift and he could wrap it. I feel bad just ordering it myself, but I think he is relieved. I went yesterday also and got the veggies and flowers I want for our yard. I feel good taht I did something for me, but I feel a tinge weird to. You ever feel that way too?