There were people sitting outside of a house across the street who have seen me at that cemetery lots of times with the kids in the last two weeks, but I'd never taken my husband there. Those people called the police! They saw my husband walking through the rows of stones alone and thought that he was either a threat to me and the kids, or a threat to the cemetery lol.
The officers came in two squad cars and a huge van with bars on the windows. They asked me if we were all together, and when i said we were, they radioed more that were on the way and told them not to bother. Then, they helped us find Joseph's backpack (which was lost at some point.)
It was so funny and the officer was even laughing about it.