people

[hummingbirds07]

i just dont get why ppl are so mean. just because they are having a bad day its ok to take it out on someone else?

[rfourangels]

Ignore it. It's their problem, not yours.

I remind myself that if it is here, online, we really don't know anyone. We don't know their motives, their lifestyle, beliefs, etc. It's only what is presented here, and that is what people want us to see.... SO don't take it too seriously. I don't. This is entertainment, at least I see it that way. DO NOT take it personally. Be selective about your friends. For all you know if it is on cafe mom the person has a psych issue, so take it with a grain of salt.

(I hate to tell you this, but my motto is everyone is guilty until proven innocent, people have to prove that they can be trusted- online or real life. It's just my personality, and I have always been like that.) And, if anyone other than someone I know really well, and have decided to include in my "circle" of friends is mean, who cares? If they are in my "circle" then maybe I need to reflect and look inward. But there are very few people who I have allowed to be in that position.

Don't let it get you down. Remember, some people enjoy just getting a rise out of others. It's not worth your time or frustration. So, ignore it, or respond with kindness... but don't respond in kind...

Just my 2 cents.

[cowgirlsr2]

As far as in here some people like just being cyber bullies and then some are really good people.I don't know what the bullies really get out of it I guess the feeeling of being superior. I would take what they have to say with a days worth of bad traffic and let it go and concentate on the good.