Ok so what is appropriate behavior between coworkers?
My DF and I had a few problems last month, where we considered taking a break, he was finding it hard to concentrate on his family AND working insanely long hours 7 days a week.
But we decided our relationship was to important to us and we would work through the issues and stay together.
NOW. On one of the days that we were having a rough time, he didn't come home from work (He works from 5-2am and the store reopens at 430am). This was understandable because he didn't have a car at that time and must not have found anyone to drive him home. I was angry and upset that he didnt call but i got over it.
that whole day im waiting for a call from him to tell me where he is. its 230pm and im standing outside the car having a cigarette in our drive way (i had taken the girls for a car ride to the store and they were sleeping in their carseats) and i see a car pull up, DF is in the passenger seat and a female manager of his is sitting in the drivers seat. he TOLD me he pulled a double shift but then some of the things he said about that night didnt add up at all.
Now this bothered me because the manager was dressed like a f*cking skank. not exagerating. but I let it go.
Now two weeks ago, DF called out from work (the first time hes EVER called otu from work) because we REALLY needed time for just "Us". This female manager, (after DF had called the head manager "rick" to tell him he would be out) calls our phone from her cell phone, i can't hear all of the conversation from her end, but hes like "Yeah, no i'm not coming in, no i just have to be here right now, yup okay, bye"
Is that inappropriate?
And then since then, she has called a few times asking him to come in early to work. Of course he goes in early.
Then today she called (her number isnt saved i just have it memorized) and i didnt answer it because i was so angry, and he didnt bother to answer it when i showed him who was calling. She didn't leave a message and I know it wasn't about work, because she always leaves a message when she wants him in early.
Is this inapproprieate behavoir of her? It makes me really uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about this?