For me, I won't tolerate criminal behavior from friends or potential boyfriends (past is negotiable but nothing current.) For my kids, I don't think there is anything that would make me disown them but I would be greatly disappointed if they became criminals.
I also don't have patience/tolerance for game playing, lying, and drama. I'm going to be honest with you and would appreciate the same.
I'm sure there are others I will think of later.