Another Spanking Post! (Not what you're expecting though) *SFAG*

[i.m.r.]

Someone posted in another group that some women allow their husbands to spank them until it hurts for disciplinary purposes. Not in the bedroom fun time, but if they do something wrong and the husband feels it is necessary he will spank his wife to discipline her.

What are your thoughts on this? I thought this would spark an interesting discussion.

Personally, in MY relationship, no. This would never be acceptable. We consider our relationship a partnership, we are equals so one person having the ability to dole out "punishments" whenever they see fit isn't something we are for. I also don't agree with ever laying a hand on your spouse whether it's for "discipline" or not. What does everyone else think?

[i.m.r.]

BUMP!

[indymom72]

yeah...that would be a hot no...lol..wouldn't work in my  marriage.

[Veni.Vidi.Vici.]

I wouldn't allow accept discipline me in any way from my husband.

I also could not be a submissive wife.

[Veni.Vidi.Vici.]

I think there should be a 15 minute wait for bumps! Just sayin'

[cemcnair]

Lol! No.

[i.m.r.]

In other groups I'm in it's just how they do things, didn't realize it was different here. Sorry.

Quoting Veni.Vidi.Vici.:

I think there should be a 15 minute wait for bumps! Just sayin'

[OHgirlinCA]

 That would be a HELL NO from me. 

[sheramom4]

Ummm, that would be a NO!!!! I am sorry, but when I moved out of my parents home the right for anyone to discipline me, except for a criminal court, was done. Our marriage is a partnership where we split the household duties as much as possible and raise the children together. I would never be able to be in a submissive relationship.

[GLWerth]

I'm a grown woman, I don't need my husband to be my parent, I need him to be my partner.

So, no. Not OK in any way.

[Rubberbiscuit]

That is just so wrong.  They willingly let themselves be humiliated?  It sounds like a rather sick and perverted way to run a relationship.  Nobody should ever physically punish their spouse/SO.  How can a woman be happy while in such a relationship?

I agree with you about relationships being a partnership.  We are two separate people, who are better people when we work together.  Neither of us dominates the other.  Judging that we've been happily married over 20 years, it works very well.