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WHITNEY HOUSTON

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:36 AM
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I WAS VERY SAD TO HEAR OF MS. HOUSTONS PASSING BUT I AM SICK OF ALL THE SPECULATION ABOUT HER LIFE. IS SHE BROKE, WAS IT DRUGS. LEAVE THE WOMAN ALONE AND LET HER BE. LEAVE THE FAMILY ALONE AND LET THEM GIVE BOBBI CHRISTINA EVERYTHING SHE NEEDS. THESE NEWS PEOPLE WERE NOT THERE SO STOP IT!!!
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romalove
by Roma on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:39 AM
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 When you live your life in the public eye, this is one of the things that comes along with it.

Whitney Houston is a cautionary tale, a beautiful, talented woman who got corrupted along the way, losing most everything important to her, even losing her gift at the end.

We see these stories over and over and over, and yet each time there is another musician/artist/starlet who falls prey to the demons.

Those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it.  I wonder if it would be incumbent on management companies to have psychiatrists on board to help monitor and step in to help those struggling under the lights of fame, to prevent more tragedies.

pvtjokerus
by Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:45 AM

Management companies will not be able to come in and clean up what needs to be cleaned up......drug and alcohol abuse.  Plain and simple.

Quoting romalove:

 When you live your life in the public eye, this is one of the things that comes along with it.

Whitney Houston is a cautionary tale, a beautiful, talented woman who got corrupted along the way, losing most everything important to her, even losing her gift at the end.

We see these stories over and over and over, and yet each time there is another musician/artist/starlet who falls prey to the demons.

Those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it.  I wonder if it would be incumbent on management companies to have psychiatrists on board to help monitor and step in to help those struggling under the lights of fame, to prevent more tragedies.


romalove
by Roma on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:47 AM

 

Quoting pvtjokerus:

Management companies will not be able to come in and clean up what needs to be cleaned up......drug and alcohol abuse.  Plain and simple.

Quoting romalove:

 When you live your life in the public eye, this is one of the things that comes along with it.

Whitney Houston is a cautionary tale, a beautiful, talented woman who got corrupted along the way, losing most everything important to her, even losing her gift at the end.

We see these stories over and over and over, and yet each time there is another musician/artist/starlet who falls prey to the demons.

Those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it.  I wonder if it would be incumbent on management companies to have psychiatrists on board to help monitor and step in to help those struggling under the lights of fame, to prevent more tragedies.

 

 I don't know if it wouldn't be helpful, from the start, to have those kinds of people monitoring.  Afterwards, I agree, it doesn't work.

I remember reading Jim Morrison's biography "No One Here Gets Out Alive" (great book, btw, loved it and recommend it). 

They actually had someone follow him to help manage his drinking.  The guy ended up just really partying with him, and was no help.  But I don't think they got the "right" kind of guy.

Of course, I don't think they could have found the right guy for Jim.  He was smarter than all of them by a mile.

A Whitney though?  I am unconvinced that with the proper intervention and management that she couldn't have been saved.

pvtjokerus
by Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 6:57 AM

I disagree and this is why.  Whitney appeared to be out to prove that she was not the innocent little girl that many claimed she was once was.  | am sure that Bobby Brown had some decent qualities somewhere and we all know when a woman is hell bent on sticking with her man the no one can get thru to her.  Also look at her original inner circle.  Her roots was religion driven.  If that group is not strong enough to drive some decent sense into you than I am not sure a management team could have made a difference.  I also say this with tongue in cheek, if you know what I mean.

Quoting romalove:

 

Quoting pvtjokerus:

Management companies will not be able to come in and clean up what needs to be cleaned up......drug and alcohol abuse.  Plain and simple.

Quoting romalove:

 When you live your life in the public eye, this is one of the things that comes along with it.

Whitney Houston is a cautionary tale, a beautiful, talented woman who got corrupted along the way, losing most everything important to her, even losing her gift at the end.

We see these stories over and over and over, and yet each time there is another musician/artist/starlet who falls prey to the demons.

Those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it.  I wonder if it would be incumbent on management companies to have psychiatrists on board to help monitor and step in to help those struggling under the lights of fame, to prevent more tragedies.

 

 I don't know if it wouldn't be helpful, from the start, to have those kinds of people monitoring.  Afterwards, I agree, it doesn't work.

I remember reading Jim Morrison's biography "No One Here Gets Out Alive" (great book, btw, loved it and recommend it). 

They actually had someone follow him to help manage his drinking.  The guy ended up just really partying with him, and was no help.  But I don't think they got the "right" kind of guy.

Of course, I don't think they could have found the right guy for Jim.  He was smarter than all of them by a mile.

A Whitney though?  I am unconvinced that with the proper intervention and management that she couldn't have been saved.


GOBryan
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:46 AM

She's a public figure. She was a drug addict and people will speculate. It's natural. It's another unsurprising celebrity death. These people are not supernatural. They are human and if she abused drugs, it's very likely that she may die from it.  I feel sorry for her daughter that probably had to deal with a druggy mom all her life. Sadly, there's no one to blame but Whitney. 

ceashell429
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:49 AM


Quoting GOBryan:

She's a public figure. She was a drug addict and people will speculate. It's natural. It's another unsurprising celebrity death. These people are not supernatural. They are human and if she abused drugs, it's very likely that she may die from it.  I feel sorry for her daughter that probably had to deal with a druggy mom all her life. Sadly, there's no one to blame but Whitney. 

Agreed!  There was another post from someone that said we should only remember her talent.  I remember an episode of her reality show (the only episode I watched) where she and Bobby were at at restuarant and she was twisting and squirming in her chair saying "I gotta poop".  Yeah, that is talent!  

rocketracer
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:17 AM

Her family better shore up her name and likeness for the sake of her daughter....kind of like what Priscilla Presley did for Lisa Marie Presley. 

NurseKatie84
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:37 AM
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 I say just let her be at peace. I know first hand how addiction affects everyones lives. She was sick. I feel for the family. I see no reason to bash and say harsh things about Whitney and frankly getting tired of seeing that. Good people have/had bad habits.

rocketracer
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:43 AM


Quoting NurseKatie84:

 I say just let her be at peace. I know first hand how addiction affects everyones lives. She was sick. I feel for the family. I see no reason to bash and say harsh things about Whitney and frankly getting tired of seeing that. Good people have/had bad habits.

...and i don't think the family should go after the doctor(s) either. 

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by Group Mod - Johanna on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:36 AM
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Speaking from experience I think you all need to stop speculating how she died. All speculation does is hurt the family. For the sake of her child and family stop speculating about how she died.
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