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Homophobic parents paying to have gay children kidnapped

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:07 PM
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Kids Getting 'Kidnapped for Christ' Are Trapped in a Living Hell (VIDEO)

Posted by Jacqueline Burt
on February 15, 2012 at 6:50 PM

kidnapped for christThe amount of abuse and torment children suffer in the name of religion never ceases to amaze (and disgust) me. And the worst part is, there's so much more of that abuse going on at this very moment than most of us know. Perfect example: Escuela Caribe, a military-style "discipline camp" in the Dominican Republic for "troubled" American teens.

Troubled teens with evangelical Christian parents, that is. Who consider something like being gay a "discipline problem" severe enough to pay goons from a  "therapeutic boarding school" to literally wake their kid up in the middle of the night, drag them out of their homes (kicking and screaming, usually) and "transport" them to another country.

Sounds a lot like kidnapping, right? That's what the filmmakers behind documentary-in-progress Kidnapped for Christ think, too.

Yes, this really happens to real kids -- and their stories are heartbreaking. One of the most powerful accounts is given by a baby-faced boy named David who talks about his "transporters" tying a belt around his waist and using it to haul him to their car.

Why would an 18-year-old straight-A student be treated like a prisoner of war?

"I got sent down here because I'm gay and my parents just aren't okay with that," says David.

David's parents didn't offer any explanation for his disappearance to his friends, who of course were scared out of their minds with worry -- until David managed to slip a letter to one of the documentary filmmakers. See, "students" at Escuela Caribe aren't allowed to communicate with anyone on the outside, which makes a hell of a lot of sense when you see what goes on at the so-called school:

It's enough to make you sick, right? As a mom, I can't wrap my head around what parents who send their kids here are thinking. Are they completely brainwashed? Terrified of what people at church would say about their gay son?

Are they freaking insane??

Honestly, I feel like someone would have to be crazy to do this to a kid -- and even pleading insanity wouldn't get them off the hook as far as I'm concerned.

As for how these parents should pay for their sins, I think a biblically-inspired punishment is appropriate (Old Testament-style, oh yeah!): An eye for an eye.

Have fun at "thereapeutic boarding school," Mom and Dad!

Do you think parents who send their kids to places like Escuela Caribe realize the harm they're doing?

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parentalrights1
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:10 PM


miss_lisa
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:11 PM
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There are no words to express how disgusted I am.
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silvercrow
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:13 PM

This isnt the first i heard about a young man around the age of 21 was kidnapped from his College dorm by a pray the gay away program and NOT even his parents can now find him (this was 2yrs ago) he is presumed dead

RoseBlossom
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:19 PM
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i am a christian, and i believe homosexuality is a sin, just like adultery, etc...but i dont hate the sinner, i hate the sin. so in my case, if my kids were to turn out to be gay, i would talk to them, pray for them, but i would never send them to a camp in the fashion of kidnapping! they are still my kids and i would never want harm to come to them. besides, this would just make kids want to hold onto what they believe is right even more so, and can emotionally damage them for life. this is just not the way.

autodidact
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:26 PM
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I'm so sick of hearing lectures from churches on "morality" that I could just puke. 

Paperfishies
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:29 PM
These parents need to be sent to prison work camps and worked to death.
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tooptimistic
by Kelly on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:35 PM

OMG..

I would never do that to my son. 

Hoarness
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:35 PM

I've heard stories like this before, so sad :(. I am just unable to understand how a parent can do this to their child.

cowboysgirl3227
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:37 PM
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 This is so sad.  The religion I was raised in is against homosexuality but I personally am not.  If my child told me that they were gay it would never change how I feel about them.  I love them no matter what.  I would never even consider changing who they are.  I would be worried about them and the problems they would face in our society but then I would worry about them no matter what.

SLTmom
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:40 PM
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There are no words for how wrong this is.

"Christ like" my ass.

This is NOT something Jesus would do.

"I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief"  Gerry Spence

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